Public Safety Factor

You may recall we were shocked and blindsided when we received Travis’s designation to Rochester FMC as we had been anticipating him to be placed at Yankton Prison Camp.   You can read more about the designation process and experience here.  From what we were able to discern before Travis began his sentence, we believed Travis […]

You’re Saying I’ve Got a Chance

I was thankful when Travis initially told me he was in with a good group of guys, but this group of guys were going to be an enormous asset to Travis time and again.  He had mentioned they were very knowledgeable in prison policy and law, but what this might mean for his future wasn’t […]

The First Call

It was Thursday.  My first full day as a wife of an incarcerated prisoner.  As I walked through the dining room to the kitchen for a cup of coffee that morning, I saw Trav’s phone and wallet.  I picked the wallet up and held it close to my chest and took pause.  For a brief […]

The Drop Off

How do you prepare yourself to drop your loved one off at prison?  How do you spend your last few days together?  What do you say, or how can you offer them encouragement?  I knew the emotions I was feeling, but I couldn’t imagine the emotions he was feeling. In the days leading up to […]

Poisonous Propaganda, Poisonous Food

The holidays passed us by in an easy, peaceful way.  We were able to remain present, enjoy each moment, and somehow set aside the reality of what the new year was bringing us.  With that being said though, the holidays were not very holiday-ish.  No décor, no tree, only one holiday party, no presents, no […]

Shadow of Doubt

Looking outside mainstream media proved lucrative in finding additional information, plenty of information, casting more than a shadow of a doubt about the government’s activities.  And when it comes to big tech companies, who is running what?  Are the tech companies running themselves or was the government calling the shots?  Or was it somewhere in […]

The Reckoning

Real life requires real talk.  The old me would not have had the courage to share not only this journey, but the lowest of lows along the journey.  Today I share these details to inspire:  inspire hope for your own healing, to demonstrate the reality of what is possible when we choose ourselves day after […]

Faulty, Flawed, & Exposed

It was one final long shot, but since Travis had decided to not retain another lawyer in an attempt to change his designation, he phoned the Rochester FMC again.  His hope was to get any information or options for reporting to Yankton rather than Rochester.  Again, a human answered the phone at Rochester.  They listened […]

Razor Wire

It took just one week from Travis’s sentencing date to be notified his retirement/investment accounts were being closed.  It was days later Ye (Kanye) West would make the news disclosing his bank accounts had also been closed which came right after his interview with Tucker Carlson as well as the media coverage about his antisemitic […]

Judicious

We watched this video in September.  It is a lecture Judge Gerard gave on April 17, 2021 to the University of Nebraska at Omaha School of Criminology & Criminal Justice.  You don’t have to watch the entire thing, but I encourage you to take a few minutes to view Judge Gerard’s self-proclamations at the 5 […]